When people think of finding "the one" or Mr. or Mrs. Right they usually are thinking of finding someone that is compatible with them. And that should be a priority. Even the Bible asks, "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" Amos 3:3 If you have ever had the misfortune of being paired up with someone who is not as grade conscious as you to work on a group project for school you probably noticed that sort of relationship doesn't go very well.